Please pray for our friend, Bo

As many of you know we have a very dear friend that was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer 2 years. While he done better than anyone has expected the next 24 hours are critical and we know that all the extra prayers will help him get through the next little bit.

Last night Bo and Christi got the call that they found a new pair of lungs for Bo. This comes with mixed emotion but know that this was the right decision. With that being said his new lungs are in and there are some complications and we all need to pray. Even if you dont usually pray, please do so for Bo and his family. We love you all and will update as soon as we know anything.

All our love,
Walker, Candace and Connor

Here are some more Pics

Here is another photo album in case you were not all ready tired of all the other photos we have all ready posted.

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First Night @ Home

I think we were spoiled at the hospital the past few days. Nothing unexpected last night with our first night at home. We tried to lie down and place Connor in the bassinet to let him sleep alone for the first time. He was not really having it. He would stay quiet for a little while and then completely blow-up. We went back and forth the entire evening. I would sleep for an hour or two and then Candace would. She would feed and then I would stay up with him and change his diaper. I am making it out to be a lot worse than it actually was.

Around 3:30 a.m. Candace woke me up to take Connor for a little while. I decided to walk him down the hallway to his nursery and sit in the glider. Things were going well until I heard something come out of his rear end that sounded like something an adult would do. This was my first big doodie diaper. I changed that diaper while he screamed and then as soon as we were done he was asleep on the changing pad. I decided to not mess with a good thing and let him lay there. I even put the Sleeping Sheep with the heartbeat sound turned on right next to him. I was a little nervous b/c the changing pad is on top of his dresser which is about 36" tall. So, I sat there reading my new copy of "Men's Health" magazine under the light from the bathroom that came through the crack in the door. Apparently, I need to eat better. I blame Phil for all this.

While reading "Men's Health" I realized that I need to prepare my own meals as much as possible (duh). This is something I think we all know, but now with Connor I am going to really try hard and pack my lunch for work. Packing my own lunch will save us thousands of dollars a year (I ran the numbers in my head and a rough estimate is over $4,500 a year), save my health, and allow me to eat whatever I want instead of eating what's around the Lake Norman area.

Today, my mom came over this morning to hang out with Connor and see us as well. She and I ran errands while the Grahams came over to let the girls see Connor and drop off Rylee. Both our dogs have done extremely well with Connor. Belle even growled at Rylee when she tried to get close to Connor. I knew one of them would be uber-protective. Looks like it will be Belle. Mom is also going to make us dinner tonight that should last a few nights. Last night we enjoyed Keisha's Chicken Chili. It was ridiculously delicious. She also brought over Chili Frito's, sour cream, and cheddar cheese for toppings. Along with a few cold beers (due to the spiciness of the chili) the Chili made for a great dinner.

Wish us luck tonight and Happy Memorial Day from Candace, Walker, Connor, Belle and Rylee!

We're Home

Connor slept the whole ride home from the hospital to the house which was great.  I tried to sleep on the way home, but Candace told me I had to keep my eyes on the road and focus.  Go figure.  

It turns out that Connor is super-tiny.  He is too small for his car seat, his clothes, and anything else we try and put him in.  Looks like my hopes of him being an NBA star are out the window.  

Belle also did very well with Connor.  She was home when we got there this afternoon and immediately gave him some kisses.  I feel really bad because Belle and Rylee have been without their parents since late Tuesday night.  Rylee even tore off the dust ruffle on our couch.  Keisha and Jared were able to surgical repair our couch so you really cannot tell.  People say that your dogs become just dogs once you have kids, but I would have to disagree.  I really missed those dogs the past few days.

Tonight will be the first night in the house without 24 hour nursing service.  Unless, any of you want to come by and stay over to help out at any hour we ask that is.  Check out the pics below from our last day.

Day #2 with Connor

Day 2 with Connor is going well.  Phil and Lena came by last night and brought us some dinner.  Then Phil and I had some dessert in the cafeteria which I think should be outlawed in all 50 states.  It was vanilla soft-serve ice cream with mini Reese's Pieces and a large spoonful of real peanut butter.  It may have been the best dessert I have ever had.  Candace ate a lot of it, but that was okay with me since she did grow a baby in her belly and then let some doctors cut it open over the past 9 months.  Connor has also gone through a lot of diapers today which is good.  He is gone through about twice as many diapers as normal babies, and he has eaten a lot too (like his old man). Candace has walked around a lot today and is doing tremendously better.  Today for lunch Kim and Sara Jane met us and we ate outside which was great for Candace.

Connor has also found his thumb and pretty much his entire arm.  This is really good.  

See below for my favorite picture of him yet.  Candace said I cannot put any stuff in his hair to give him a spike like his old man, but I think you can all see that he has really blonde hair.  We'll have to wait and see what Candace let's me do with his hair.

Tonight for dinner I achieved some mental help by getting out of the hospital and walking down East Blvd. to 131 Main to get some to go food.  Right now Uncle Jared is holding him while we watch the NBA playoffs.  

Tomorrow we will come home.  Wish us all luck.

  

May 22nd, 2008

Our first night with Connor has been pretty good.  We sleep for 3 hours while he is in the nursery.  They bring him back in to feed (he loves to eat like his father).  Sleep is great on the bed/bench thing I have to use, not.  It's also really hard to sleep because any noise he makes puts me into Defcon 5 mode.

So far I have changed 3 diapers.  2 were fully-loaded and I did extremely well per Connor and Candace.  Kudos to Walker.  

Also, sorry for the delay in posting more frequently while here in the hotel.  The network here is garbage.  I think it's the first wi-fi network that runs on dial-up that I have ever seen.

More to come later and hopefully a HD video of Connor. 

More Pics of Connor

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Please welcome William Connor Ham

Please welcome William Connor Ham.  Almost 20 inches and weighed in at 6 pounds 12 ounces.

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Connor is Impatient

Like is father, Connor waits for no one.  At about 10:35 p.m. on Tuesday, May 20th Candace's water broke.  It's funny how every book I read talked about how you will not have the late night water break with a mad dash to the hospital.  I say bullshit to that. 

It is currently 11:35 p.m. and we are at the Hospital.  Check back soon for more updates.

Love to all.

New Domain

FYI to the 4 people that read this site consistently:

You can now go to www.WalkerandCandace.com to view the blog.

Owen Whitcomb is here

Our good friend, Lori and Greg Whitcomb, went in for a check-up on Friday the 16th and were told that Lori would be induced the next morning. At 12:15pm on Saturday, May 17th Owen Whitcomb was born. Please check out www.gregwhit.com for more information on their new son.

Saturday I was scheduled to attend Boot Camp for Dads with Greg. Friday afternoon I was informed that Lori would be induced so I canceled our plans for the class. That morning Candace and I woke up really early for no reason. We should be getting our sleep now. I made my famous banana and chocolate chip pancakes. We then cleaned the bathrooms, dusted, vacuumed the house, I hung a mirror, and picked up in preparation for Connor's arrival. Now we only need to wash all his clothes. That is marked for completion this week. After we cleaned, Candace and Kim went to eat lunch and run errands while I went to meet Ben at their new house and hang out. Ben and I ate at the Penguin Drive-In that some of you may recall from the "Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives" TV show from the Food Network. That was some seriously good food. We then went back to the Moore house to drink beer, smoke cigars, and mow the grass using Ben's riding lawnmower. Solid, redneck afternoon in Charlotte. Candace was really happy.

On Sunday, I ended up getting my own boot camp by taking care of Preston Graham along with Peyton and Patterson while Phil and Lena traveled back from our company trip to Napa Valley in California. I did not clean any diapers. I did give him his bottle 3 times with success and did not drop him. I also gave him his bath along with the girls. No one slipped in the tub and everyone went to bed pretty easily. I consider the day an overall success.

Monday night Candace and I grilled out some pretty tasty turkey burgers with Uncle Jared and Aunt Keisha. Jared and Keisha brought over "real" meat while Candace and I ate the turkey burgers. I have to admit they were not that bad, but then again with enough cheese anything can taste good. We also served baked beans and fries seasoned with rosemart and olive oil. Burgers, beans, fries, and Coors Light. God bless America.

This weeks marks an exciting week for us. This will be the last week of work for Candace, and marks that we only have 2 weeks left until they deliver Connor (unless he decides to come earlier). I feel like there is so much we have left to do and I have left to learn.

Braxton Hicks

Braxton Hicks contractions are sporadic uterine contractions that start about 6 weeks into your pregnancy, although you won't be able to feel them that early. You probably won't start to notice them until sometime after mid-pregnancy, if you notice them at all. (Some women don't.) They get their name from John Braxton Hicks, an English doctor who first described them in 1872.

As your pregnancy progresses, Braxton Hicks contractions tend to come somewhat more often, but until you get to your last few weeks, they'll probably remain infrequent, irregular, and essentially painless. Sometimes, though, Braxton Hicks contractions are hard to distinguish from early signs of preterm labor.

See also, "living hell for wife and husband."  I feel very bad for Candace now b/c she is experiencing these Braxton Hicks contractions now (not the same as THOSE contractions but little ones that still hurt like crap) and there is nothing I can do in order to make them go away.  I wonder if Connor will actually wait until June 2nd before making his grand appearance.  

What a Wicked Head Fake

June 2nd, 2008. Connor Ham will enter the world. We will be in the hospital by 5:30 AM Monday morning.

The Week has been Determined

So Candace went to the doctor today and was informed that Connor will be here sometime during the last week of May.  The week or Memorial Day to be exact.  

Also, we were told that a Connor is still breech and him turning seems unlikely.  I have posted a new poll so you can all vote what day he will be born.  The winner will receive a dirty diaper fedex to them free of charge.  So vote now!

The Picture to the Right is Wrong

Apparently that's what your baby looks like if he is not "breech." Connor is kicking it upright in Candace's belly right now. Looks like we can skip the child-birth classes and only attend the Cesarean classes along with the infant CPR classes. We have yet to attend a class so that is great. Glad I am starting off on the right foot here as a parent. Now that soccer is over we should be able to knock out these classes in no time.

Also, since some of you may or may not know I am going to inform you all that Candace was really sick on Friday night (May 2nd) into the early hours of Saturday morning with some kind of stomach bug. We woke up early Saturday morning and attempted to visit the Urgent Care to get treated, but ended up getting sent down to CMC in Charlotte where we visited the ER and got 2 liters of fluids in Candace and some much needed rest. On a side note I think it is totally badass that the hospital has Fox Soccer channel on their TVs. Maybe this child birth thing won’t be so bad after all.

After we spent a good 2 hours in the ER, got treated by two people from the cast of Gray’s Anatomy (the DR was about 18 and the nurse was hot) we were sent up to the Maternity center on the 8th floor to be observed for a few more hours. Candace’s doctor did not seem to be too worried so that was refreshing. We left about 3:00 pm after being there since 9:00 am. The hospital cafeteria has pretty good bacon cheeseburgers so I know Duncan will be happy when he comes to visit his nephew later this month or next.

We also found out that Connor is measuring at 40 weeks! Everyone kept saying that if they had to deliver the baby today it would not be a problem. Can you say bullshit?! That would be a major problem as I have not totally mentally prepared myself for this yet. I don’t know if we even have any diapers, nor do I know how to change one yet. Candace did not like the idea of Connor coming this weekend either so I am glad I wasn’t the only one not ready for him just yet.

Candace is at home today and tomorrow resting and recuperating from the dehydration and lack of sleep. I guess the lack of sleep is something we should get used to, huh? That is all for now.